The Truth About Breaking Generational Curses

I have worked on breaking generational curses in my life since my late teenage years. What I am about to tell you is a combination of my lived experience and information I have gathered through working with clients and seeing what is going on. I may be wrong, but this is what I currently believe is going on with generational curses. 

My life was a big chaotic mess. I would pray all the time. I would drive to work and I would be praying on my way to work. I would wake up and I would pray. I would go to bed and I would pray. It was part of my daily life to pray about my well being and my family's well being throughout the day. They were little prayers. 

Since I was very young I have spoken to God. My family was abusive and God was my only comfort. I would pray and I would feel His comfort around me and within me. I knew the presence of God.

But yet, once I became an adult my life was one chaotic mess after another. I have found the reasons for it to be complex. It is true that you need to do work to heal your trauma. I don't dispute that, but there is an underlying bigger issue going on as well. 

Time and time again, I have seen that people that come from abusive families have attachments of negative entities all over them. The way I have made sense of this is that they appear to be gangs that gang up on a family keeping them tied to that way of life. That's why it will feel like a curse. That's why it will feel like no matter what you do you can't change things. 

There have been several pivotal moments in my life. One of them was when I was in a serious relationship with a guy prior to my husband. He was abusive and I remember a pivotal moment where I could see the cycle of abuse and I could see what was going on. I can now see that as a moment where those negative forces wanted me to live the same way my ancestors did. In fact, I believe they played a pivotal role in that relationship. 

But I had a moment of awareness and I got out. I ended up marrying my husband which I believe was not part of their plan, but a part of God's plan. My life has been a mixture of me praying and somehow ending up with some good things in my life, but also a lot of interference and challenges in my life beyond what could be understood as normal life challenges. 

I see the same occurring in the lives of my clients. They have these attachments working in their life, creating extreme challenges for them and deceiving them. They will pull your energy to guide you and you will believe you are following God, but in fact you are being deceived. 

Ultimately this is how this curse is ultimately broken. All of that I have described is a spiritual war and that war is for your soul. It is my understanding that when you are born into one of these families that are riddled with attachments they believe they own you and your soul. They will fight for it. That is why your life will be the way that it is. 

You will continue in this state of spiritual war until the battle is won. Ultimately you need to completely align yourself with God and want absolutely nothing to do with their abhorrent ways. This seems easy enough to do. No one wants this in their life right? And yet, it isn't easy mainly because of all of the trickery and deception while you are in the midst of that war. 

When you don't know what you're doing and you can't see what's going on, they will make you believe all is well only to later find that they have been messing in your life in a different way that you hadn't considered. The game is lies, deception, and trickery. God won't punish you for this. He is very aware that you have no idea what is going on and all will be corrected once you find your way to Him. 

Once you have gotten this far it will only be true for you. Members of your family have to go through their own spiritual war to get to this point. Until they do, they will be continued to be used by the negative forces and unfortunately they are so deceptive they won't necessarily see it. 

As you are going on this journey you will find random people attacking you from all areas. See it and know it for what it is. There are a lot of people that are used by the negative forces to get to you. Know that and don't let it get to you. 

Their main source of power is your fear. You fear death. You fear bad things happening. Learn to have faith in the goodness of God and that you are ultimately always okay and protected. If you know that you love God, why would you ever need to be afraid of death?

Once you no longer are afraid of what they can do to you they lose all of their power over you. That isn't the final step. Plenty of people get to this point. The final step is to know that this is a battle for your soul and get to a place where you have won and know your place with God.  At that point they will have no power over your life anymore. 

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