I have worked on breaking generational curses in my life since my late teenage years. What I am about to tell you is a combination of my lived experience and information I have gathered through working with clients and seeing what is going on. I may be wrong, but this is what I currently believe is going on with generational curses. 

My life was a big chaotic mess. I would pray all the time. I would drive to work and I would be praying on my way to work. I would wake up and I would pray. I would go to bed and I would pray. It was part of my daily life to pray about my well being and my family's well being throughout the day. They were little prayers. 

Since I was very young I have spoken to God. My family was abusive and God was my only comfort. I would pray and I would feel His comfort around me and within me. I knew the presence of God.

But yet, once I became an adult my life was one chaotic mess after another. I have found the reasons for it to be complex. It is true that you need to do work to heal your trauma. I don't dispute that, but there is an underlying bigger issue going on as well. 

Time and time again, I have seen that people that come from abusive families have attachments of negative entities all over them. The way I have made sense of this is that they appear to be gangs that gang up on a family keeping them tied to that way of life. That's why it will feel like a curse. That's why it will feel like no matter what you do you can't change things. 

There have been several pivotal moments in my life. One of them was when I was in a serious relationship with a guy prior to my husband. He was abusive and I remember a pivotal moment where I could see the cycle of abuse and I could see what was going on. I can now see that as a moment where those negative forces wanted me to live the same way my ancestors did. In fact, I believe they played a pivotal role in that relationship. 

But I had a moment of awareness and I got out. I ended up marrying my husband which I believe was not part of their plan, but a part of God's plan. My life has been a mixture of me praying and somehow ending up with some good things in my life, but also a lot of interference and challenges in my life beyond what could be understood as normal life challenges. 

I see the same occurring in the lives of my clients. They have these attachments working in their life, creating extreme challenges for them and deceiving them. They will pull your energy to guide you and you will believe you are following God, but in fact you are being deceived. 

Ultimately this is how this curse is ultimately broken. All of that I have described is a spiritual war and that war is for your soul. It is my understanding that when you are born into one of these families that are riddled with attachments they believe they own you and your soul. They will fight for it. That is why your life will be the way that it is. 

You will continue in this state of spiritual war until the battle is won. Ultimately you need to completely align yourself with God and want absolutely nothing to do with their abhorrent ways. This seems easy enough to do. No one wants this in their life right? And yet, it isn't easy mainly because of all of the trickery and deception while you are in the midst of that war. 

When you don't know what you're doing and you can't see what's going on, they will make you believe all is well only to later find that they have been messing in your life in a different way that you hadn't considered. The game is lies, deception, and trickery. God won't punish you for this. He is very aware that you have no idea what is going on and all will be corrected once you find your way to Him. 

Once you have gotten this far it will only be true for you. Members of your family have to go through their own spiritual war to get to this point. Until they do, they will be continued to be used by the negative forces and unfortunately they are so deceptive they won't necessarily see it. 

As you are going on this journey you will find random people attacking you from all areas. See it and know it for what it is. There are a lot of people that are used by the negative forces to get to you. Know that and don't let it get to you. 

Their main source of power is your fear. You fear death. You fear bad things happening. Learn to have faith in the goodness of God and that you are ultimately always okay and protected. If you know that you love God, why would you ever need to be afraid of death?

Once you no longer are afraid of what they can do to you they lose all of their power over you. That isn't the final step. Plenty of people get to this point. The final step is to know that this is a battle for your soul and get to a place where you have won and know your place with God.  At that point they will have no power over your life anymore. 

​If you have any questions please comment them here and I will do my best to answer them either here or via a post. 

Almost everyone is taught how to pray from a young age. We say our prayers before bed, but very few are taught about how to protect themselves during prayer. 

Prayer isn't something we passively do. Because you're not physically doing it you think it's a very passive affair. You think, " I will just say a quick prayer and go about my day." 

That's not how it works. Prayer is the beginning of a long chain of dominos especially when you're praying for protection because there are negative forces that will actively work against you and your prayers. 

It is real work. God doesn't just do everything for you. You have to be actively aware of what is going on spiritually and keep praying, but if you have been compromised energetically your prayers will be very ineffective and can lead to more problems. 

This is especially true when you practice praying to different entities. You don't really know what you're praying to and what their intention is toward you. 

The same can be said about listening to binaural beats, meditations, and chants. Unless you personally know the creator of these things and can trust them you cannot trust that these things are created in good faith. Usually whatever they have put into them that is damaging is so tiny that it will go undetected, but overall you will keep doing spiritual practices and praying and see areas of your life getting worse. 

You may even think, "When I was praying daily, journaling, and doing yoga I didn't have these problems" not realizing that was when your problems began.  

I learned through personal experience that many yoga practices open up your energy too much. When it is open it allows for entities to get in. If you're not spiritually aware enough you won't know this has occurred and you will never link the two together. 

Due to this, I stopped doing anything that other people have created and would only do them based on my own training, but I have come to a place where I don't even feel the need to meditate, do yoga, or qigong. I just commune with God in my own quiet time when I choose to do so without anyone guiding me through a meditation. 

You won't ever hear me recommend anyone right now because I have found many people that are actively doing this kind of work helping you with one hand and stealing your energy with their other hand. They are two faced. 

I am someone that does a lot of research and reads a lot so I haven't been as blunt about this before now. I wanted to make sure I knew what I was talking about before I spoke about it.  In particular, there is one big author that is quite famous and I read her work. While reading it, I was so confused. I had no idea what she was talking about and I would reread the passages thinking it would sink in better until I heard God say to me, "Look at her bibliography." 

I looked at her bibliography and a lot of her resources were Wikipedia and How Stuff Works. I am not kidding. At that moment I heard, "She doesn't know what she is talking about. She hopes to speak so above people's heads that they won't ever catch that she doesn't know what she is talking about." 

That made sense to me because I am actually someone that loves science and math so science makes sense to me, but everything she was saying made absolutely no logical sense. 

And I am okay with things not making sense because when it comes to spiritual work it doesn't make logical sense sometimes, but something within you knows it's true because we all have that inner compass. There is mystery there, but we can still be guided and know when something is off. 

Through visions, I saw that her work was also damaging people mainly because her work is leading them astray. Her work and the work of other new agers is leaving people completely vulnerable to dark forces.  

But I am not picking on new agers because most information out there including the bible has a lot of important information missing that you will only get through communing with God. God is already within you. You do not need to seek him outside of you. That is one of the lies that keeps you separate from God. 

My background is Christianity and I have read the bible many times and during that time I was severely spiritually attacked because the bible has missing components to it and because pastors and priests don't know about them either. I went to several pastors. They all told me to pray as if I hadn't already been doing that. Things only kept getting worse. 

I then went back to my Catholic roots and was helped by a priest. Things seemed to ease up a little, but in reality they hadn't at all. 

It is during this time of being spiritually attacked that I saw my marriage go down the drain. It is during this time that I was involved in the most epic fights with my husband. 

Having epic battles with your husband is one of the signs of being spiritually attacked. Negative forces want to see you divorce. They want to break up families. That's why I am always weary of anyone that is so quick to say to go "no contact" with family because division is one of the main ways that negative forces love to attack families. That isn't to say it isn't appropriate sometimes. Some situations really do warrant going no contact especially if there is abuse, but as of late I have been seeing people do it over what appears to be nonsensical things that come from the interference of negative forces. 

When negative forces are involved if you have a moment of clarity you will see what you're fighting about makes absolutely no sense. Remember I said when they are involved not that they are always involved or the reason for people's problems. 

If you have any questions please comment them and I will do my best to respond here or to write a post about it. 

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A lot of psychics will tell you that everything in the spiritual realm is good and that all of your loved ones are happy and doing well on the other side. 

I can't speak about what they are seeing and why they're seeing that, but I can speak from my experience. 

In my experience, the spiritual realm is very similar to the physical world. Just like you can meet a stranger and have it turn out that that stranger is a very good and kind person or a sorry excuse for a human being, it is the same in the spiritual realm. Also just like in the physical realm, someone may be very good at making you believe they're a good person and that you can trust them the same can be said in the spiritual realm. Evil spiritual beings can dress in light. They can make you think that they are there to help you, but they're doing everything but helping you. 

Not realizing this can create lots of problems for you. 

I have clients that have taken classes to learn how to astral travel or be psychic. They never received any spiritual counseling. They were led to believe that it is completely safe to do these things and were lured by all that they could get by doing them: material wealth. If anything is being sold to you by telling you that you will be wealthy and really trying to inflate your ego, be weary. They are lying to you. 

God does not care about material wealth. God does not care about helping people make millions of dollars. God does care about supporting you, helping you, and your material and spiritual well being, but you  don't need millions of dollars to be happy or safe. That is a completely egoic pursuit that is usually fueled by feeling like you're not enough and not being happy so you believe if you get all of those things you will finally have enough and be happy. 

In recent years, psychic work has become extremely popular and everyone wants to be clairvoyant. It's caused an epidemic of a lot of people plunging into this area without any spiritual armor or protection and they are now suffering the consequences of that. 

Regardless of how you're psychic or dabbling into the spiritual world, these are things that we all have to learn how to navigate, but no one is ever discussing them because they don't sell. 

Telling you that you will be able to have everything you want sells. Telling you that working in this space is dangerous and brings a lot of extra problems at your door doesn't sell. 

Do you know that practically all intuitives and empaths have a time in their lives where they wish they didn't have these gifts?

I was one of them. I have been targeted spiritually. I have gone through the most horrific and terrible challenges that normal people don't have to face. Unfortunately, I learned that you can't shut it off and that even if you try to not use your gift you will still be targeted because of who you are. Evil forces know who you are when you have these abilities and they will target you regardless of whether you speak about it or not so I have chosen to just start speaking about it because you need to know this. 

Please let me know if you any questions and I will do my best to write posts to answer them.