Vampirism in Marriage

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Lately, God has been asking me to talk about love from my perspective given everything I have learned about it in the past several years.

There is a lot of confusion around what love is and it isn't an accident. Remember negative forces are always working toward distraction, destruction, and keeping you afraid. 

Love is life giving. Love overcomes fear so of course they will keep you in a confused state so that you never experience it. 

All of this can be seen spiritually and felt and experienced in the body. 

When you're in a loving relationship it gives you strength. You can do anything. It fortifies you. So when you both equally love each other, you do that for each other. 

But that's not what we see in this world. We see a lot of imbalance. We see women self sacrificing for their men and becoming a shell of what they once were. 

There is a lot of vampirism in a lot of marriages. It's done in the open and women are mocked for it. 

For example, women have a purpose in life just like men. They want to do fulfilling work. How often do you see a woman working on a career or business and she can't find traction? She becomes the joke. She's had a business for over ten years and it's rarely ever made a profit. 

She can be doing anything. She can be a real estate agent and she never sells a house. She works and she works, but she makes no money. 

Meanwhile, the entire time that she is working as a realtor her energy is constantly pulled away from her work to help her husband. His business is excelling and guess who is managing it? The wife. She is doing all of the administrative work and making sure all the paperwork is squared away for legal and accounting. 

She even does some customer service work, but does she see a dime from this labor? Not once. Her work isn't valued and she is seen as a joke because she isn't excelling in her own business. 

What is going on here spiritually? That will tell us the entire story. In the spiritual, I can see the man is abusive. I can also see that he is stealing her energy. Because her energy is continuously stolen she has gotten to a place of extreme weakness. She no longer trusts herself. She no longer feels capable. She no longer feels strong and on top of it she is older and is aware that society is not kind to the older woman. She is trapped. And she will be labeled as stupid for allowing this to happen, but it all happened without her awareness. 

As soon as a vampire gets their fangs on you, if you are not aware and you don't do any protection work, it's a slow demise to everything that you are. They will take absolutely everything that you are and you will wonder, where did I go?

The cure for this is to take back your energy, but that doesn't automatically happen by leaving someone. You can leave and never see someone again and they can still have access to your energy especially in situations where you have given yourself to them or they are family members. 

This is what I help people with. I do spiritual and protection work to help people get back to a state of harmony again. With that comes clarity of mind instead of living in a state of confusion. You also feel fortified from within and able to take action that actually gets you somewhere because your energy isn't helping others instead. It's being used the way it was supposed to be used, to help you navigate your way through this life. If you would like help with this work please contact me by clicking the button below. 

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